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Friday, November 5, 2010
Sunday, October 24, 2010
Twinkle,Twinkle,Little Star!
Wishing to encourage her young son's progress on the piano, a mother took her boy to a Paderewski concert. After they were seated,the mother spotted an old friend in the audience and walked down the aisle to greet her.
Seizing the opportunity to explore the wonders of the concert hall,the little boy rose and eventually explored his way through a door marked "NO ADMITTANCE".
When the house lights dimmed and the concert was about to begin,the mother returned to her seat and discovered that her son was missing. Suddenly the curtains parted and spotlights focussed on the impressive steinway on stage.
In horror, the mother saw her little boy sitting at the keyboard innocently picking out "Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star."
At that moment, the great piano master made his entrance, quickly moved to the piano, and whispered into the boy's ear,"DON'T QUIT, KEEP PLAYING." Then, leaning over Paderewski reached down with his left hand and began filling in a bass part.Soon his right arm reached around to the other side of the child, and he added a running obbligato.
Together the old master and the young novice transformed what could have been a frightening situation into a wonderfully creative experience.The audience was so mesmerized that they couldn't recall what else the great master played, only the classic," Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star."
Perhaps that's the way it is with God.What we can accomplish on our own way is hardly noteworthy.
We try our best, but the results aren't always graceful flowing music.However, with the hand of the Master, our life's work can truly be beautiful.
The next time you set out to accomplish great feats, listen carefully.You may hear the voive of the Master, whispering in your ear,"DON"T QUIT." "KEEP PLAYING."
May you feel His arms around you and know that His hands are there, helping you turn your feeble attempts into true masterpieces.Remember God doesn't seem to call the equipped,rather He equips the "CALLED."
Remember,"Life is more accurately measured by the lives you touch than by the things you acquire."
Saturday, October 23, 2010
A HUMBLE SPIRIT. (THE VIRTUE OF HUMILITY)
Friday, October 22, 2010
INSPIRING QUOTES. (1)
- Lord, help me slow down and not rush through what I do.
- Nothing sets a person so much out of the devil's reach as humility
- When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
- We invite defeat when we remember what we should forget.
- God asks no man whether he will accept life. That is not a choice. You MUST take it. The only choice is HOW.
- Nature gives man corn but he must grind it; God gives man a will but he must make the right choices.
- The noblest revenge is to forgive.
- Most people forget God all day and ask Him to remember them at night.
- Ideas won't keep; something must be done about them.
- If at first you don't succeed, try reading the instructions.
- A friend is someone who knows the song of your soul and sings it back to you when you've forgotten the words.
- Don't be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.
- Good listeners are not only popular everywhere but after awhile, they know something.
- Don't worry about finding your station in life; there's always someone who will tell you where to get off.
- Faith affirms what the senses do not affirm, but not the contrary of what they perceive. It is above and not contrary to.
- What counts is not the number of hours you put in, but how much you put in the hours.
- It is not in doing what you like, but in liking what you do that is the secret of happiness
- It's not what you leave to your children, it's what you leave in your children.
- The man who speaks positive convictions is worth a regiment of men who are always proclaiming their doubts and suspicions.
- While faith makes all things possible, it is love that makes all things easy.
- When you help a person uphill, you get closer to the top yourself.
- You can not discover new oceans unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.
- There is surely a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off. Proverbs 23:18
- The hardest secret for a man to keep is his opinion of himself.
- Making the most of today is the best preparation for tomorrow.
- God does not promise a comfortable journey, only a safe landing.
- We should give God the same place in our hearts that He holds in the universe.
- Be careful that your marriage doesn't become a duel instead of a duet.
- Do the thing you fear and the death of fear is certain.
Thursday, October 21, 2010
A FATHER'S LOVE LETTER.
Date: Eternity.
My Dear Child, - You may not know me, but I know everything about you.... Psalm 139:1
- Even the very hairs on your head are numbered.... Matt 10:29-31
- For you were made in my image.... Gen 1:27
- I knew you even before you were conceived.... Jer 1:4
- I chose you when I planned creation.... Ephesians 1:11
- And I knit you together in your mother's womb.... Psalm 139:13
- You are not a mistake, for all your days are written in my book.... Psalm 139:16
- I determined when you would be born and where you would live.... Acts 17:26
- Because I love you with an everlasting love.... Jer 31:3
- I have been misrepresented by those who don't know me.... John 8:41-44
- I am not distant and angry but am the complete expression of love... 1 John 4:16
- And it is my desire to lavish my love on you.... 1 John 3:1
- For every good gift that you receive comes from my hand.... James 1:17
- I offer you more than your earthly father ever could.... Matt 7:11
- Because I am the perfect Father.... Matt 5:48
- And I am the provider who meets all your needs.... Matt 6:11-33
- My plan for your future has always been filled with hope.... Jer 29:11
- My thoughts toward you are as countless as the sands on the seashore.... Psalm 139:17,18
- And I rejoice over you with singing.... Zeph 3:17
- I will never stop doing good to you.... Jer 32:40
- For you are my treasured possession.... Exodus 19:5
- Delight in me and I will give you the desires of your heart.... Psalm 37:4
- For it is I who gave you those desires..... Phil 2:13
- I am able to do more for you than you could possibly imagine.... Eph 3:20,21
- For I am your greatest encourager.... 2 Thess 2:16,17
- I am also the Father who comforts you in all your troubles.... 2 Cor 1:3,4
- When you are brokenhearted I am close to you.... Psalm 34:18
- As a shepherd carries a lamb, I have carried you close to my heart.... Isaiah 40:11
- One day I will wipe every tear from your eyes.... Rev 21:3,4
- Because I love you even as I love my son, Jesus.... John 17:23
- For in Jesus, my love for you is revealed... John 17:23
- He is the exact representation of my being.... Heb 1:3
- He came to demonstrate that I am for you, not against you.... Romans 8:31
- And to tell you that I am not counting your sins.... 2 Co 5:18,19
- Jesus died so that we could be reconciled..... 2 Cor 5:18,19
- His death was my ultimate expression of love for you.... 1 John 4:10
- I gave up everything that I loved to gain your love.... Romans 8:31,32
- If you receive the gift of my Son you receive me.... 1 John 2:23
- And nothing will ever separate you from my love again.... Romans 8:38,39
- Come home and I'll throw the biggest party heaven has ever seen.... Luke 15:7
- I have always been Father, and will always be Father.... Eph 3:14,15
- My question is.... Will you be my child? John 1:12,13
- I am here if you ever want to talk....
Your Father in Heaven.
Beloved Reader, how would you reply/ respond to such a wonderful message from a kind and Loving Father who would stop at nothing to Fulfill his Word. He made us understand: 'Heaven and Earth may pass away But his words stands to be Fulfilled'.
Respond to this letter today By believing in your heart that truly God is always there to meet you at the point of of your needs and i bet you'll never be Disappointed.
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Wednesday, October 20, 2010
GOD COORDINATES OUR WAYS !!!
And when she saw a notice saying, ”Wanted: One soprano for summer position” in the church bulletin in Washington D.C on a Sunday morning in 1945, her joy knew no bounds. She lost no time in presenting herself to the choir director, who set up an audition for her on the following Sunday. After a lot of prayer, she selected “I walked today where Jesus walked” composed by Geoffery O’Hara, for her audition piece. All week long she practised.
But back at the church on Sunday, she made the dreadful discovery that she had left the music on the bus itslef. And then to her dismay, the choir director who gave her an appointment was out of town and decision about her selection was upto someone else.
The substitute organist was a friendly man, in his sixties. Mary with much hesitation told him that she had lost the music. “What piece where you planning to sing?” he asked. “I walked to day where Jesus walked” she answered.
Assuring her that he could play it from memory, he launched into the accompaniment. “You sang that exactly as it should be sung, and I welcome you to the choir”, the accompanist told her.
Mary was overjoyed. When she was about to leave, she thanked him profusely and asked his name. With a mischievous grin, the organist - and the composer - replied, ”Geoffery O’ Hara“! Mary marveled at the way the Lord HONORED her COMMITMENT to sing for Him alone.
Dear friends, when you make a firm decision that you will stand for the Lord, remember He will definitely honor your commitment. He will create favor in people’s eyes and co-ordinate things in such a way that you would be surprised to see the outcome. - GOD BLESS !
Sent in By: JOHNSON DANIEL
REFUSE TO LISTEN TO SATAN !!
He would reach home late in the night, abuse his wife and children and the entire house would be like hell, But, by the immense grace of God one day Randy accepted Christ as his Savior .
He confessed his sin and made a firm decision that he would not drink anymore.
As usual once again the payday came. It was Friday. Randy with the money in hand was walking home passing through the wine shop and the Holy Spirit whispered to him to go home straight.
At the same time, Satan kindled his fleshly desire saying, ‘Just one little drink”. Randy tried to resist. But Satan tried another trick. He said, “Just go inside with your friends, but don’t drink”. This seemed a good idea for Randy.
He went inside the wine shop but alas, he fell into the temptation. He drank his ‘heart-full’, returned home and his family encountered the same torture.
The next day the Holy Spirit convicted Randy and he felt extremely guilty and miserable.
He pleaded with God and then with his wife to forgive him. In his quiet time, the Holy Spirit instructed him to change his route from his work spot to his home to escape the temptation of the wine shop.
Randy obeyed the voice of God and on next Friday, the pay day, he said good bye to his friends once for all and took a different route to his home, reached home happily as a victorious man. The entire family rejoiced and praised the Lord.
Dear friends, Satan is always at work in the life of every child of God.He does not bother about us as long as we live according to the ways of the world; but once we make a commitment to follow Jesus, he somehow wants to distract us, and make us drift from the Truth.
But let us resist him in the name of Jesus. Let us make a resolution to listen to the voice of the Holy Spirit and obey what He says.
If we do so we will not only bring happiness in our lives, but also please God who is our Creator.
Let's say this little Prayer : Loving heavenly Father, I thank you for redeeming me from sin. Help me not to fall into temptation. Empower me by Your Holy Spirit to live a victorious Christian life. In Jesus name I pray. Amen.
GOD BLESS YOUR DAY !
Sent in by: JOHNSON DANIEL
Saturday, October 16, 2010
LIFE IS A MIRACLE
Open your heart to others
Give of yourself each day.
See the beauty in everyone
Regardless of where they've been,
Some have a difficult journey
And really need a friend.
Share your gifts and talents
Listen with your heart.
Do the things you dream about
But don't have time to start.
Pick a bouquet of flowers
Show someone that you care,
Be gracious and forgiving
Life is never fair.
Hold on to your courage
You may need it down the road,
We all have a cross to bear
It could be a heavy load.
If you practice all these things
No matter where you roam,
You may find both sun and rain
But you'll never feel alone.. REMAIN BLESSED
Thursday, October 14, 2010
THE QUALITIES OF LIFE.
JUST ONE STEP !
Your success will start when you begin to pursue it. To reach your goal or to attain success, you don't need to know all of the answers in advance. You just need to have a clear idea of what your goal is.
Don't procrastinate when faced with difficult problems. Break your problems into parts, and handle one part at a time.
Develop tendencies toward taking action. You can make something happen right now. Divide your big plan into small steps and take that first step right away.
Everyone who ever got where they are had to begin where they were. Your big opportunity is where you are right now.
A Journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Take it ... REMAIN BLESSED
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Wednesday, October 13, 2010
FOOD FOR THOUGHT
When Someone is in your life for a REASON,
When people come into your life for a SEASON,
LIFETIME, Relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.
WHEN WE FACE REJECTION.
Rejections of every kind
We need to know it’s not the end
And to leave it all behind
And carry on with faith in God
That He will see us through
To fulfill what He has called us for
The work we need to do
And sometimes these rejections
Is a turning point in life
That leads to other avenues
To bring our dreams alive
If we can only see this as
A chance to expand our wings
And see there’s opportunity
To fulfill our godly dreams
For God knows what’s best for us
And He will show the way
We only need to trust in Him
And be on our knees each day
For He will bring it all to pass
Releasing hope inside
As we keep walking with the Lord
And in His love abide.
IS LIFE A RISK?
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental.
To reach out to another is to risk involvement.
To expose your feelings is to risk rejection.
To place your dreams before the crowd is to risk ridicule.
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To go forward in the face of overwhelming odds is to risk failure.
But risks must be taken,
because the greatest risk of all is to risk nothing.
The person who risks nothing, does nothing,
has nothing and is nothing.
He may avoid suffering and sorrow,
but he cannot learn, he cannot feel,
he cannot change, he cannot grow
and he cannot love.
Chained by his certitudes, he is a slave.
Only the person who risks is truly free
Would You Cease to Exist Due To The Fact That Life Appears Risky? Definitely not.
THINK OF THIS: Every man has the right to risk his own life in order to preserve it. Has it ever been said that a man who throws himself out the window to escape from a fire is guilty of suicide?
YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO BE A CONQUEROR IN LIFE !!!.... REMAIN BLESSED.
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SINCERE FAITH PRAYER
The problem with many of us is that we don't believe that God will open a window and pour out blessings that we won't have enough room to receive them. I dare anyone to try God. He is true to His Word. God cannot lie and His promises are sure.
Three things will happen to you this Month:
(1) You will find favor with someone you don't expect;
(2) You will be too relevant to be ignored;
(3) You will encounter God and you will never remain the same.
My prayer for you today:
The eyes beholding this message shall not behold evil, the hands that will send this message to others shall not labor in vain, the mouth saying Amen to this prayer shall laugh forever.
Remain in God's love as you send this prayer to somebody today. Have a lovely journey of life!
Trust in GOD with all your Heart and He will never fail you because:
LOVE AND TIME
Permit me to use a story to encourage and cheer u up:
Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love. One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.
Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.
When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.
Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said,
"Richness, can you take me with you?"
Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you."
Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. "Vanity, please help me!"
"I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.
Sadness was close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you."
"Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!"
Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.
Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder,
Love asked Knowledge, another elder, "Who Helped me?"
"It was Time," Knowledge answered.
"Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is."..
SO KEEP NURTURING THAT LOVE YOU HAVE OR YOU DESIRE AND WITH TIME IT WILL YIELD THE BEST OF FRUITS...REMAIN BLESSED.
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FORGIVING FROM THE HEART
A healed memory is not a deleted memory.
Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember.
We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future.
It takes one person to forgive
it takes two people to be reunited.
Vengeance is having a videotape planted in your soul that cannot be turned off.
It plays the painful scene over and over again inside your mind...
And each time it plays you feel the clap of pain again...
Forgiving turns off the videotape of pained memory.
Forgiving sets you free.
To forgive is to set a prisoner free
and discover that the prisoner was you.
Irrespective Of How Hard It May Be To Forgive When We Are Wronged Or Offended, We Should Always Have It In Our Hearts That:
TO FORGIVE IS THE HIGHEST, MOST BEAUTIFUL FORM OF LOVE. IN RETURN, YOU WILL RECEIVE UNTOLD PEACE AND HAPPINESS.... REMAIN BLESSED.
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Monday, October 11, 2010
DO NOT !!!
Only you know what is best for you.
Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
It is a fragile thread that binds us to each other....
It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS
It is not a gift that gets delivered to our doorstep each morning, nor does it come through the window.
If we wait for them to get just right, we will never find lasting joy.
The pursuit of happiness is an inward journey.
Our minds are like programs, awaiting the code that will determine behaviors; like bank vaults awaiting our deposits.
If we regularly deposit positive, encouraging, and uplifting thoughts, if we continue to bite our lips just before we begin to grumble and complain, if we shoot down that seemingly harmless negative thought as it germinates, we will find that there is much to rejoice about.
THERE IS ALWAYS A REASON TO BE HAPPY ESPECIALLY WHEN WE FOCUS LESS ON THE NEGATIVITY THAT COMES OUR WAY AND RATHER USE THEM AS A STEPPING STONE TO HIGHER GROUNDS
HEART TOUCHING QUOTES
- When you run so fast to get somewhere, you miss the fun of getting there. Life is not a race, so take it slower. Hear the music before the song is over.
- Life is a mixture of sunshine and rain, teardrops and laughter, pleasure and pain. Just remember, there was never a cloud that the sun couldn't shine through.
- Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear.
- When you born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you are the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.
- Love is as beautiful as two people choose to make it!
- A careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.
- Life is like a book. Each day is a new page. May your book be a bestseller with adventures to tell, lessons to learn and tales of good deeds to remember.
- A smile is a language even a baby understands. It costs nothing but it creates much. It happens in a flash but the memory of it may last forever. Keep on smiling!
- The happiest person doesn't have the best of everything in life. Perhaps he is just good in making the best of everything that life brings along his way. Stay happy always!
- Learn to appreciate the rainbow after cursing the rain. It's just like loving again after experiencing the pain!
- The beauty of life does not depend on how happy you are, but on how happy others can be... because of you. God Bless!
- It is the heart that makes a man rich. He is rich according to what he is, not according to what he has. Hello to one of the richest persons I know. God Bless!
- It's not the possession of good things that bring happiness. It is the ability to enjoy what comes. Happiness is an attitude.
- Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it would come to you when you least expect it.
- In words, love can be read. In actions, love can be measured. But others don't know that even in silence, love can be heard.
- No one can go back and make a new beginning, but anyone can start from now and make a happy ending.
- When you find a dream inside your heart, don't ever let it go.... for dreams are the tiny seeds from which beautiful tomorrows grow.
- Smile when in leisure. Smile when in pain. Smile when troubles pour like rain. Smile when someone hurt your feelings, coz you know, smiling always starts the healing!
- Every teardrop is precious so better make sure that if you drop some, its worth crying for, coz you can never pick them and put them back to your eyes. Love wisely!
- Life they say is touch and go. Some people you know may only be there for a time. Some may go away but people who find you special will always find ways to stay.
- One measure of friendship consists not in the number of words that friends can discuss, but in the number of words they need no longer mention.
- Life's a game, sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. But no matter what your cards in life, whether club, spade, or diamond, always remember - never play without a heart!
- Remember - you are worth not for what you have, not even for who you are, but for what others have become because of you. Wish you the best!
- When things go wrong don't go blue. Just pray and say I will get through. Always remember God Loves You!
- To be strong one should have faith in one's self and trust in one's strength. It takes strong heart to overcome every hardship that will come. Have faith in yourself and believe.
- Life is a one-way street. No matter how many detours you take, none of them leads back. So enjoy life every moment as none of them will happen the same way again.
- The world is full of beauty when your heart is full of love. So start and end your day with love and smile in your heart. Have a peaceful day.
- Valuing a person is not merely seeing each other everyday. What counts most is that somehow in our busy life, we remember each other even just by saying "Take care".
- We are never given dream without also being given the power to make them come true.
- Life can give you a hundred reasons to cry, but you can give life a thousand reasons to smile.